The Chasm of Pause

The chasm of pause before one takes back their power can feel deep, broad, and never-ending. Yet – the moment it happens, peace prevails, and that who you unquestionably are shines through your being. Honor yourself and others with compassionate communication. We are all a work in progress, and the more we practice, the more we evolve together in this arena. 

How to take back your power from unhealthy situations

First and foremost ~>

BREATHE and get out of Amygdala Highjack. 

1. Notice and be aware of how the experience affects your body?

Do you feel uneasy sensations in your gut, heart, or legs? If yes, your intuition – your “gut feeling” is speaking to you. Trust it. Look within and ask what it is telling you. Listen to the answers you receive and breathe. You listened deeply, you heard the information, and now the choice is yours. 

2. Be willing to be uncomfortable in the choices that are good for you and are transforming your current situation into a more positive one. This is where you rediscover your power. 

Follow through on what you know to be true for yourself to create peace. The willingness to do so will generate remarkable events for you and those around you. 

3. Have clear and compassionate conversations with yourself and those you need to establish new and healthy relationships.

In your conversations, Begin with being a good listener and with personal accountability. Look to empathize, to understand more fully different perspectives and experiences. This validation for others will create more grace when it is your time to express yourself. If that time is not reciprocated for you – you have your answers. 

Take responsibility for your past actions, mistakes, and choices. ***Let me be clear; you are not responsible for others’ unhealthy and hurtful choices toward you – at all – ever.*** However, forgiveness is a Power-tool, so Forgive yourself and others for past mistakes and create more space in your soul for peace, love, and deeper connections with yourself and others. You are with it, I promise. 

Love,

Shajen
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Shajen Joy Aziz, M.Ed., M.A.
323-889-9512

Award-Winning International Bestselling Author, Educator, Executive Producer, Speaker

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Discover Yourself ~ It’s Why I’m Here 

Light it Up

Tap into what lights you up and inspires you. Remember to let go of the preconceived notions of others and follow your passions and gifts; it’s the way to expand your life.

Love, Shajen Joy

Worthiness

As you learn to listen to and follow your positive inner wisdom more fully, your self-worth blossoms in new ways and clear boundaries become essential in your self-care rhythm.

Your journey is about fully understanding your worthiness, your inner source, and connecting that source with your inner knowing and new ways of thinking and being.  To support this journey, I want to share how important it is to recondition and work on your mind and emotions to connect them in powerful and positive ways.

The Dalai Lama said, “The ultimate creator is the human mind,” and you must pay special attention to your internal thoughts, your energy, your heart, inner wisdom, and your voice. Allowing yourself to be guided by your source, the heart, instead of your rational mind is a critical way to access your inner core. 

Michael Bernard Beckwith teaches us that our thoughts are mental energy and Terry Tillman acknowledges that energy follows thought, so with that knowledge, and as seekers of our Gifts we need to be aware of these lessons and allow our minds to relax and our hearts to lead the way. 

Every choice we make creates an energetic vibration that flows into the Infinity Feedback Loop. This constant flow of energy is always in motion, never stagnant. 

What we must do has become aware of our thoughts and thought processes because “there are no neutral thoughts” (Williamson”).  Becoming deliberate and purposeful with our thoughts and actions creates awareness of our presence and the present.  

Happy Solstice!

Breakdown Often Means Breakthrough.

Transmutation

Remember…Breakdown often means breakthrough.💫 Like the caterpillar evolving, it must surrender to hanging upside down in the darkness as it transmutes into the blossoming butterfly. Pause and be in your present moment. It is in the “being” that we live.
Shajen Joy Aziz #Discoverthegift 🤍🤍

When You Have Clear Intentions

InterAction:

The Law of InterAction must be applied for us to manifest things on earth. Therefore, we must engage in actions that support our thoughts, dreams, and emotions and choose our intentions and words wisely.

There can be no meaningful action without the corresponding laws of intention and attention in play. When you have clear intentions, you can transmute negative energy into decisive positive activities that build a foundation of self-esteem and trust in your self-expression and leadership. Any action is better than no action because even a mistake will guide you; if you are aware and actively involved in the direction of your Gifts and Passions, then the fulfillment of your purpose is clear.

The Law of Action is about precisely what it states “ACTION.”

You can think and read all you want, but if you don’t get out there and begin to put Action into your desires, they won’t be realized. Your brain is a large muscle, and the more you use it toward a specific goal, the stronger it becomes, and thus, the more possibility you create to have it attract what you want. ACTION is a vital aspect of attaining what you want. Be clear with your intention and where you focus your attention. 💛
Shajen Joy #DiscoverTheGift

Create Your Positive Affirmation for Daily Use


Create Your Positive Affirmation for Daily Use. 

As you Create your positive affirmation for daily use. Know that you can change, adjust and pivot it as needed. 

In this process, it is necessary to discern how universal laws impact us, and if we understand them more fully, we can choose more wisely because we are aware of their presence in our lives and how they operate.

For this practice, let’s look at The Law of Polarity. It shows us that everything has an opposite. We have all heard those old sayings: “what goes up must come down, as above so below, as within so without—equal reactions. 

What often happens when we engage in these (transformative practices that improve our lives) is that a positive intent will naturally bring up an “opposite” thought as a point of contrast.  Physics teaches us that: ‘For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.’ This energy is also true regarding some of the ways a human mind works. Therefore, when you begin using positive affirmations – making positive statements and setting positive intentions – do not be surprised to find that negative thoughts may form in your mind as well. In other words, it is not uncommon that when you focus on something positive, your mind may go to a “counter” or opposite thought just as a matter of course. This awareness is natural and can even be helpful, for “contrast” is a part of understanding how we operate and gives us insight into ourselves and the importance of equilibrium.

Simply BE AWARE of why this happens and acknowledge the PURPOSE OF CONTRAST in your life; light and dark are all part of our process and journey. For example, when you work out, you feel weak at first. When you save for something special, you may feel broke for a time; Always keep COMING BACK to following the positive affirmations and intentions you set for yourself. Your attention to this is how you build your belief in your abilities at new levels. 

Here are some examples to use as you become inspired to create your own.

EXAMPLES OF POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS

I am the oasis of health, happiness, beauty, joy, and abundance.

“I am available to more good than I’ve ever imagined coming forward in my life.”

“I can do this.”

“I am a co-creator of positive energy.”

“I am a channel for good to unfold in the world, both for myself and others.”

“I am a gift, and everything about me is for constructive and loving use.”

“I am unique; no one else can give rise to my vision.”

“The Universe creates through me; I am an instrument of evolution.”

“I am a vessel of love, peace, truth, authentic relationships, and personal power.”

Create Your Positive Affirmation

My Affirmation:_______________________

Now that you have created a personal affirmation, your next step is to say it every morning upon waking. I like to say mine in the shower because that is where I am guaranteed to focus on self-care. Wherever works for you is the perfect timing.  The more comfortable you become with it, the more possibility it holds for you and the more it becomes you. Speak it out loud; this is an important piece to note; you must take action. Imagination is a beautiful thing, and “creativity is what you do with imagination” (Sir Ken). It is vital that you speak your desires out loud, that you put into action ideas that are emerging and awakening in you. It is in these actions that your desired life begins to unfold.

Shajen
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Shajen Joy Aziz, M.Ed., M.A.
323-889-9512

Conscious Content Creator

Award-Winning International Bestselling Author, Educator, Speaker

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Discover Yourself ~ It’s Why I’m Here 

Light Work is Shadow Work

Last week I sat with my demons, stepped through my fear, and had deep discussions about what is needed to be set free.  Examining the discourse, my inner dialogue, I followed through by unlocking the rusted iron gate holding my most profound sorrow and acknowledging and thanking this anguish – for teaching me deep love, empathy, and the ability to thrive despite the uncomfortable and painful experiences of my past. I am now giving them worth and merit, as they have made me exactly who I am today; for this, I am eternally grateful. Honor your dark places; it’s where the light needs to shine. Be Raw and Real – there is a beautiful life in open, honest dialogue filled with compassion and love. The only way out is through, and if I can do it, you can too. 

Shadow work is light work. 

You are special and unique with your very own perspective. When you become confident with yourself and live and source your life from a space of what is remarkable about you, existence somehow begins to be filled with much more grace and ease.  And the contrary is true as well; when you focus on all the negative aspects of yourself, they expand and grow and begin to take up most of the real estate in your brain.  I challenge you to start from this point forward, spending as much conscious and aware time focusing on what is right and wonderful with yourself, all those around you, and the situations you find yourself. , one day.   Sometimes what seems like an awful turn of events can blossom into beautiful possibilities.

It is in the process of your awakening that you discover who you are.

From this point forward, you can choose your thoughts and actions and create Joy in your life and the lives of others. The more you step into your authentic self, the more possibilities you create.

 

 

 

 

Shajen
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Shajen Joy Aziz, M.Ed., M.A.
323-889-9512
Co-Founder of SHYNE WISDOM
A conscious content corporation

Award-Winning International Bestselling Author, Educator, Speaker

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Set Intentions not Resolutions

As life has changed for the globe, and we are entering a new year filled with unknowns, now is the perfect time to understand sovereignty in a new way. Your ability to govern your thoughts, choices, and actions. Uncomfortable and filled with unknowns, we have all learned to be with our new normal. Moving forward, I implore you to embrace this time with gratitude for All that is – All that is not – and All which is yet to be.  You are more powerful than you realize presently, and gratitude is a potent fuel for living a life you love.  The energetic wave flows freely in Gratitude.  


2022 is an incredible time to begin the new project you have dreamed about for a long time. It is a perfect time to put positive intention and focus on what you wish to activate into your life.  Know from this point forward you can choose to generate possibilities through your choices and actions. Enjoy this new beginning as it has powerful universal energies with it.

Resolutions or Intentions? The choice is yours. Create manifestation rituals and experience the energetic flow of setting intentions. Intend for the New Year, and resolve the past.  Breathe in Goodness and possibilities – exhale doubt, worry, and fear. Now, focus on positive feelings as you create anew. 
InsightIntentionIntegrityInvolvementIntegration

🤍🤍 Shajen Joy
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Shajen Joy Aziz, M.Ed., M.A.
323-889-9512
Co-Founder of SHYNE WISDOM
A conscious content corporation

Award-Winning International Bestselling Author, Educator, Speaker

Click this link and Meet Shajen
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4ymzLtzqno

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Discover Yourself ~ It’s Why I’m Here 

Timeless Wisdom from my Mom

Fonda Joy Segal

Happy Solstice

“We are honoring the light,” she would tell us, and “today we celebrate its return.” Happy Solstice! My mother, Fonda Joy, was a trailblazer, a woman before her time. Knowing the importance of earth medicine, she taught us to understand our surroundings well and recognize the magic within us and all around us. I am grateful for her powerful spirit and consistent lessons, as they were clear, courageous, and timeless.

  1. Honor your voice – it’s not healthy to hold it in – speak your truth.
  2. Know Your body, love your body
    It’s Your body – it is Your choice
  3. Eat organic and local whenever possible
    Food can be medicine or poison.
  4. Sugar is evil; stay away from it.
  5. Stand tall (“back straight and titties up”)
  6. Move your body every day.
  7. There are messages from the earth; spend time with her and listen.
  8. Know that everything is connected; the animals, the people, the earth, the moon, the stars, and the galaxies.
  9. Keep creating – there is life there
  10. Love Big – Love is always the answer

I have missed her since the age of 12, knowing nothing else; I have embraced her lessons and a life without her physical presence. Every day, I welcome her loving spirit. 💫🙏🏼Blessed and grateful.🙏🏼💫

Here Comes the light.

Positive Experiences Re-wire

Those who experienced extreme trauma at a young age have different ways of managing life. Emotional damage re-wires the brain; this means healing does too. If you know someone like this, honor their tender souls and engage in gentle, positive experiences which help to re-wire internal thoughts and feelings to a more accurate reflection of who they are today. Interactions like this generate beneficial outcomes for all involved.